Change Rocks!!

I am a nobody, not a PH.D or life coach, just an average chick trying to do the right things and make my mark in this life. But as I leave one chapter of my life and venture into a new one, I have been reflecting on lessons learned and focusing on the amazing possibilities and opportunities for the future.

This post is a little different from what I normally post. I felt compelled to share my thoughts today. I was reflecting on the change that has taken place over the last few years and lately I have been discussing with several dear friends and family the struggles they are having too.  I was thinking a lot about struggles and attitude. Each of us has trials, baggage, issues, problems, despair, conflict and financial, physical, mental and spiritual challenges we face every day. And some days, it feels like it hits ALL at once! But despite these challenges, I am moved by the strength I see in others.  I hope I do and show others how much I appreciate them and can be there for them in their time of need. I am shocked at my own personal strength. I realize the strength I have comes from foundation of love and support from my incredible circle of friends and family. It is powerful what a good attitude can do! I am grateful that over the last few years and especially the last few months so many wonderful people have extended generous outreach, love and support of me and my girls.

It is easy to get trapped in your own little world. Not seeing the forest for the trees. I admit, I have been guilty of that more than I’d like to count. I have had conflicts, made bad decisions, been hurt deeply by others actions and words and often wondered where do I go from here. I have also seen the ignorance and stupidity of others. I know we are given obstacles and trials to test our resilience, love, our relationships, strengths and weaknesses. Challenges bring out the best or worst in people, and either is okay. It is really about the journey: good or bad. The times of trial have made me appreciate the good times more.

It’s amazing how so many things just “work out” or timing is perfect. The old saying “everything happens for a reason” has become so clear to me!!

Some of the lessons I have learned, for better or worse:

Last but not certainty least! 
More lessons to come in my life I am sure of that and more adventures to be had! As I write the next few chapters in my life’s book, I am so excited for what’s ahead!